DP, F, 30, 8/10, K, Anger issues and purpose of life
Dear Amarantians,
This is my third case on this forum, I am grateful for all the support I have received from Dr. Venu, Neha and my dearest forum members.
Please take your time to read and provide valuable feedback on this case. It is little unusual and interesting case.
Session 01: 27-02-2023
Time: 3 hrs 15 mins
Clients Name: DP
Gender: Female
Age: 31
Hypnotisability Score: 8/10
Dominant Sense: Kinaesthetic
Secondary dominant Sense: Visual
Eye roll Test: 1
Theme: Anger Issues
Pain Scale: 7/10
DP is an entrepreneur and mom of 2 kids, she is very active and has a caring heart. However, her reaction to some issues is extreme anger which mostly results in lot of destruction. She quotes her anger as ādangerousā, she had a love marriage and has a loving family however some episodes of anger have earned her a title of āAngry womenā and she feels at the heat of the moment, she is not able to control her anger or words and feels guilty later. She wants to find out answer on how to control anger.
After history taking, we headed for lunch.
Session 02: Same day after Lunch
Duration: 3 hrs 3 mins
Same day after 3 hours Started Induction using Dave Elman, Progressive relaxation.
Visualization: Garden, Tunnel of light
DP saw three joyful memories of her childhood.
Session 03: 28-02-2023
Duration: 3 hrs 38 mins
Started with Bell chant video
Theme Finalization: Anger Issue
Induction using Dave Elman, Progressive relaxation.
Visualization: Garden, Tunnel of light
Got feedback through IMR
(Through tunnel of light reached the hall way with doors on both the sides)
T: Walk through the hallway and look at all the closed doors, your Subconscious mind knows which door to select to find answers to your Anger issue.
(Dp takes a few mins before speaking again)
DP: I can feel one door to choose among all these, I have come near that door
T: Wonderful, Take a deep breathe, keep your hand on the knob of that door
DP: I have kept it
T: Now as I count from 3 to 1 push open the door your subconscious mind has selected for you to find answers
(DP opens the door, eye movement and actions like concentrating on something observed)
T: What do you see or feel? Keep taking deep breathe.
DP: I see multiple flashes
T: Thatās alright, just keep breathing and the flash will be still, take your time. Thereās nowhere to go, nothing to do. Itās time to relax
DP: As soon as I open the door I feel like there is not much information in this door, try something else, there is a intuition like maybe I should go to some other door or try finding answer by some other way
T: Okay you can come out of the door, take some time and think about an incident in your life when you felt really angry, go to that moment, replay that memory and feel the emotions and feelings at that moment
(DP takes a few minutes)
DP: I have packed my clothes after an argument, I am very angry, I just want to leave the house and I am screaming and I am walking out of the house. Grand ma is trying to stop me
T: H ow are you feeling? Feel those feelings, make them as a bridge and flow back to the time it all started. Can we do that?
DP: Yes
T: Perfect, make these feelings a bridge and as I count 10 to 1 flow back to the time the anger issue has started, your subconscious mind knows which moment to pick.
(Counting 10ā¦ Make this feeling as a bridgeā¦9 take a deep breatheā¦ 8 flowback to the time it startedā¦ 7 Your subconscious mind is picking up a memoryā¦6 Relax the muscles around your foreheadā¦ 5 your mind knows where these feelings have started fromā¦ 4 Take a deep breathe in to that experience from where this anger has startedā¦3 Breathe in to that experience slowly from the source of your anger startedā¦2 It can be in this lifetime, it can be from other lifetimeā¦1 We are here to address it today, flow back to that feeling)
(DP takes a few mins to concentrate on the visual)
Do you see or feel anything? It is slowly coming to your awareness.
(DP is shivering)
T: What is happening? Relax take a deep breathe
DP: I am shivering, its cold please switch the fan off
T: Okay, take a deep breathe, what is that comes to your awareness
DP: I can see a dusty land
T: Okay look at your feet
DP: I donāt see my feet
T: Okay look around
DP: There are some people around
T: Okay look at your hand
DP: I canāt see my hands
T: Okay what does this surrounding look like?
DP: It is like holy place
T: Okay what are you doing there?
DP: I am just there
T: Can you look at what youāre wearing?
DP: I canāt see what am wearing
T: What do you see around?
DP: Lots of birds and its very loud around
T: Okay what placed is this?
DP: Holy place in some country, not sure
T: Which year is this?
DP: I donāt know
T: Okay can we progress little further and go to your home?
DP: Okay
T: Perfect as I count from three to one go to your home from that life time
DP: Okay
T: 3 TO 1, take a deep breathe go to that lifetime
DP: I am still here in the dusty area and that is my home
T: Can you float above and see yourself?
DP: Yes
(DP has surprised expression, takes a few mins to process the situation)
T: Take a deep breathe, What do you see?
DP: I am a tree, is it even possible? People whisper in my ears
T: Itās is possible. What do they whisper?
DP: They whisper their problems in my ear and worship me and tie some threads around me
T: And how do you feel about it?
DP: Well, I feel good because I am like their friend and an important part of this temple. But there are birds that are pecking at my body. It is very loud. I am not able to hear what some people whisper but I pray for them.
T: Is there anything else to explore here?
DP: Yes, I listen and care for everyone who comes to me, many wishes have come true for many people, they come to thank me and hug me. I feel good that I am able to help everyone. Many birds rest on my branches, they can talk to me, we can communicate.
It is very happy and relaxing lifetime; I really care for everyone who comes to whisper in my ears.
T: Wonderful, do you want to feel the happiness for sometime?
DP: Yes
T: Okay be here for some time before we move to next event and feel the happiness from that lifetime where you cared and helped people. Let me know whenever youāre ready
DP: Okay
(DP took sometime and was seen smiling occasionally)
DP: I am ready
T: Perfect. As I count from 3 to 1, can you please go to significant event in that lifetime
(3 to 1) What do you see?
DP: I have become very old, people are talking about me saying this āHearing treeā had been here for more than hundred years. Many people have gathered around and discussing about me.
T: Can you make out what theyāre discussing?
DP: They are discussing about cutting me down
T: Oh, why they want to cut you down?
DP: Because I am old and the temple had been demolished during a fight few years back
T: How do you feel about it?
DP: I am feeling sad and angry
(Paused for 5 mins) I listened to them for years and cared for them but now they are ready to cut me down, they will sell my wood and earn money
T: Yes, itās obvious to feel sad, can we go little further and see what happens?
DP: I have not been worshipped from the time they demolished the temple and I was in the centre of that place, small children used to play in the shade. Old men used to sit in the evening and chat, now they feel I am in the way of making new roads and buildings so they are cutting me down.
I was angry before but now some people are standing holding hands to prevent me from cutting me down, they are mostly children and women, maybe I am old itās okay that I be cut down
T: Thatās sad can we go further and see whatās happening
DP: Yes
T: As I count from three to one, go to the last moments on this lifetime
DP: I have been cut down and I am looking at myself from above, there is a white light I am moving towards it
T: What are your last thoughts?
DP: I was angry on people and found them very selfish, I helped and cared for them but they cut me down but now I feel itās my time to leave, I should not have expectations from anyone, expectation results in disappointment and disappointment makes me angry.
T: What are you carrying from that lifetime as hearing tree to this lifetime as DP?
DP: That I have to continue helping and caring for people and just improve my behaviour not let external situation affect my temper.
T: Thatās good. Where are you going?
DP: I am in a beautiful place but I have no body, they are evaluating my life
T: Who is evaluating?
DP: My guide
T: What are they telling you?
DP: They are telling me that this lifetime was to teach me become selfless, they are telling me that I have to let go of my ego and just care for everyone, serve others.
T: Can you ask them what is the purpose of this lifetime
DP: I am trying to hear, its almost like a whisperā¦They are telling that I have to not make everything about myself, surrender to situation sometimes, the purpose is to surrender myself and not keep proving each and every point or arguing on that point, getting angry if someone criticizes or doesnāt accept my way is wrong, I should not do it. I should not expect myself to be centre of everything, just let things be as it is and not press my opinion on people around me.
T: What do you feel about this message?
DP: Yes it is true, I understand why I am being told so, they are also telling that I have a caring and loving heart and its very easy to let go of this anger in future.
I just have to learn some calming techniques and meditate regularly.
T: Wonderful, how are you feeling after receiving these messages
DP: I feel good
T: Do you want to stay here for a while
DP: They have disappeared I think I am ready to go ahead
T: Okay as I count from 10 to 1 slowly go back through the tunnel to the garden
DP: Okay
(Counting 10 to 1)
T: Where are you?
DP: In the garden
T: How are you feeling?
DP: Relaxed, I got a visual of me wearing a rudraksh pendant and meditating. My face was looking very peaceful.
T: Good, take in the feeling. Relax for a while, let me know when you are ready to move
(DP relaxed for 5-7 mins)
DP: I am ready
T: As I count from 1 to 10 slowly open your eyes, rub your palms together and cover your eyes with your palm and open eyes whenever you are ready
(After a short break we sat down for Closure)
DP was radiating and happy about lessons and messages received from her guide. She also agreed to a few messages about the changes she had to bring in order to deal with her anger.
A follow up after few days over a call: DP informed that her pain level has dropped to 2 from 7 and she is calm and remembers her guideās message whenever she feels like she is getting angry, She told during meditation in the following days she was able to get more visuals and messages and feels closer to her higher self.
